Little Death

Let’s Talk About Scat


Last fall, when I was living in Paris, I was swiping through Tinder and matched with a French musician. Since his stay in the city was only temporary we didn’t get the chance to meet IRL, but we stayed in touch, talking about filthy French writers like Marquise de Sade and Guillaume Apollinaire. “I’m extremely open-minded, I enjoy everything,” the guy told me. “Even the nasty de Sade stuff – like scat for example.” Knowing very little about scat aka poop play, I immediately eyed an opportunity to become enlightened. So I replied: “Hey, why don’t you tell me a little more about that?” And luckily for you guys, my French friend agreed to do an anonymous interview for PEGGY!

Simone: So, what exactly is scat and what about it turns you on?

Well, I’ll give you my own definition, maybe other people would define it differently. Scat, which is sometimes called “hardsports”, is to feel sexual excitement from excrement. There are many different ways to practice it – soft or more extreme games… For me, scat is a huge turn-on because I like the natural and animal side of being human. I have found a sort of extreme intimacy and sensuality in scat games.

Can you tell me a bit more about how this kind of intimacy feels to you?

I think that scat may be one of the highest levels of intimacy that two people can share, because it’s pretty unusual to just “leave it all behind” in front of a partner. To kiss, to see each other naked, to have “regular sex” are all things that are generally considered normal, when you are dating someone. So, I think what makes scat so special is that it can feel like a higher level of intimacy. It can be very sensual.

What was your first experience with scat like?

The very first experience was with my second sexual partner. I was 20 and she was my first hook-up. We wanted to have anal sex, so I was munching her ass and fingering her hole. And while I was doing so, I felt something inside of her… No doubt about what it was, haha. I remember feeling a bit surprised and confused but I kept going deeper and deeper. It was a strong turn-on for me… We had great anal sex right after!

I bet you are really into anal, aren’t you? I suppose women wouldn’t have to worry about you freaking out if you got poop on your dick…

Yes Miss S, I am totally into anal – I love it in all the ways you can imagine! And you’re right, I would never freak out if I got poop on my dick. It would be a turn on!

Have you practiced scat with more than one partner?

I’ve had several partners that I’ve played soft scat games with, but only five partners when it comes to hard scat, meaning poop rubbed on another part of the body than just the asshole or the cock… My first hard scat experience was with a nurse (funny, isn’t it?), I was 23 and she was 33. We were friends with benefits, and the third time we had sex, we decided to try scat together. We’d already had some extreme sex during our first meetings: deep throating, fisting, piss play… It was the first time for her, and for me too. I fingered her nasty ass and finally she pushed out her “present” in front of me. I rubbed it all over her ass and fisted her. Then she pooped on my face, took it into her mouth and performed a blowjob on me… The experience was soooo strange and disgusting, but also very sensual at the same time… For a few months after, I stayed away from my scat desires… But it came back as it always does!

How do you get in contact with people who share your interest?

I have found my partners through a French swinger website called Wyylde.com but also through Fetlife.com, where there’s a huge scat community. I’m still searching for the best way to get in touch with people… But with patience, it works!

Where do you seek inspiration for your fetish? Any cool books we should check out?

Well, I think most of my inspiration comes from having a creative mind! But yes, definitely: You should check out this unknown book by the famous French writer named Guillaume Appolinaire. It’s called Les Onze Milles Verges (English: The debauched Hospodar). It’s a crazy story, totally insane, and so weird that it sometimes becomes funny. You will find all kinds of extreme stuff in there… I don’t appreciate all the deviant things, but the way he writes about piss and scat is so great that it might even turn on some people who have never thought about those things before…

You also have the famous Les 120 Journées de Sodome (English: 120 days of Sodom) by Marquis de Sade. It’s longer and VERY deviant but the first part of the book which is called Les passions simples is very much about scat – and written in such a delicious way.

Then there is an artist/photographer that I love: Sabrina Dacos. She makes a lot of nice pictures and GIFs that depict a strong ass fetish… If you Google her name with the proper keyword you should find some great scat pictures. They are very “soft”, but very beautiful.

I checked her Tumblr, it’s hilarious (and NSFW)! Anyways, scat seems to be where a lot of people draw the line. They’ll say something like ”I’m extremely open-minded when it comes to sex, but I would never play with excrement or anything like that…” Why do you think it’s such a taboo?

I perfectly understand that. Truth is, excrement smells hard and tastes like shit (lol)… But I think it’s mostly the hygienic aspect that disturbs people. You need to be very careful when you perform this kind of sexual practice. But if you are, you shouldn’t have any trouble!

And another thing is, that when people think about scat, they usually think about stuff like the famous Two girls One Cup-video or someone swallowing a full plate of shit… Okay, this side does exist, but there’s also a softer side to scat play, which is more natural and sensual. I hope that over time attitudes will change and that people will become better at accepting their bodies… I think it’s a problem of our time. Just the fact that many people think pubic hair is disgusting or that armpit sweat during sex is dirty… Folks, we’re mammalians! I think we should try to accept all these natural parts of ourselves that we seem to be denying sometimes. It’s not the same as going back to more primitive times. You can be a modern feminist, respectful to all genders and totally accept the dirty side of sex too.

Are there any things you fantasize about but would never do IRL? Like, sometimes I masturbate to the thought of having sex with unattractive men that I would never dream of actually being with…

For sure, especially with scat… There are some things I would never be able to do, but I masturbate thinking about it. But shh… Let’s keep that private!

Haha, if you say so… Do you think that there’s a humiliation aspect of your scat fetish too?

There can be, but it’s only one aspect of it. It depends on the way it’s done. Personally, I’m a more sensual man (maybe it’s hard to believe, but I’m a big romantic!), so I prefer to feel it more as an exchange of pleasures… Something like “We’re so close that I allow you to see something that nobody else has ever seen before”…. For me scat is the ultimate intimate experience you can have with a partner… But yes, I also like role play with a degrading aspect. I switch between being dominant and submissive, but I’m more to the dominant side, so I need to be extremely trustful in order to accept being humiliated by a partner.

You’ve told me that you’re really into squirting as well. Do you think all vaginas are able to? I used to role my eyes whenever a partner brought it up, like ”It’s not going to happen, so just let it go.” But then it actually did happen. And yet I can’t help feeling a little skeptical of the claim…

I don’t know if all vaginas are able to squirt, but I know that most of them are and a LOT of women don’t even know this. According to my own personal experience, I would say that four out of five women are able to. But there are many different ways to reach the divine squirt, fucking or fingering. These are the two methods I use to get there – even with the hardest ones:

For penetrative sex, I usually ask my partner to lay down on her back, with her legs folded on her stomach. Then I go on top of her, showing her my back (okay, in this position my ass). This way she is wide open and can’t really move (but if it hurts, it is not a good position!).

When it comes to fingering, this way my wrist will not hurt: I stick two fingers inside my partner’s vagina (major and annular) and I knead her g-spot, first softly, then harder and faster… It’s pretty difficult to explain, but I get this feeling… It’s like all my senses are awakened. I love women, and I think this is one of the most important things to keep in mind. You need to REALLY want to give pleasure to your partner. Also, I’m a musician, and my hands are pretty strong and have a nice dexterity… maybe that helps? Go buy yourself a musical instrument – that’s the moral of this interview, haha.

Great advice. Thank you!


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